With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, we thought, what better way to celebrate than by sharing some love stories. Matt Hopwood, author of a Human Love Story – Journeys to the Heart, has written a blog piece here telling us about his journey from Lindisfarne to the Isle of Lewis, gathering people’s stories of love. He selected 34 of those stories for you to share in his book that is being published on the 14th of February.
A Human Love Story
Since A Human Love Story began in 2011 I have walked thousands of miles through the United Kingdom and beyond sharing love stories with local people. During that time I have told and retold my love story to strangers; on the path, in the streets, towns and villages I pass through. And in those exchanges I have sought to create a safe space, where an individual can be heard, can speak his or her story, and where they have an opportunity to open up and be vulnerable. This is my heart-led activism in the world. It is my compassionate practice.
500 Miles Through Scotland
In the spring months of 2017 my journeying brought me to Scotland. I walked some 500 miles from Lindisfarne in the North Eastern corner of England to the Callanish Stones on the Isle of Lewis, far out in the Atlantic Ocean off the west coast of Scotland. Along the way I sought hospitality, a bed for the night, food, shelter, a welcome. I moved as a stranger through the land looking for connection, searching out the narratives that shape this part of the world. As ever, I sought to connect with people through the stories of their heart; those stories of love that have formed their human experience profoundly. I met with folk on the path, in the pub, by the shore, in the cities and in the villages. We spent time listening to each others stories, opening up a little, shedding some tears, testing our vulnerabilities, exploring our truths.
The Book – ‘Journeys to the Heart’
Since that walk I have spent time editing together a collection of the stories I shared during those early months of 2017. They are now brought together in the book A Human Love Story – Journeys to the Heart. They are for you to read and share. They are not perfect: but they are perfect. They do not resolve, begin or end as fictional stories might. They start where we found ourselves meeting on that day; with those experiences we were going through at the time. Each story reflects an experience of love and connection. They explore our desires to be heard and seen, and touched and wanted; our desire to belong. They express the importance of ‘home’, of ‘welcome’ and ‘connection’. They are sad, joyful, ecstatic, hard, glorious, life-long and momentary. In a sense they are universal stories and could have been heard anywhere around the world, because in the end we are all lovers and hermits, brothers and sisters, sons and daughters, migrants and refugees. We are all lost and all found.
What are your stories of love and connection? How do you belong? What does ‘home’ mean for you?